Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

What Is Attachment? Why Feeling Seen and Safe Matters in Relationships

Introduction: Our Deep Human Need for Connection From infancy through adulthood, one emotional need remains constant: the need to feel safe, seen, and supported by the people who matter most to us. In family therapy and relationship counseling, this core concept is known as attachment. Understanding attachment theory can transform how we view parenting, marriage, … Read more

Can We Make Sense of Dating and Mating? A Family Therapist’s Perspective in New York City

Modern dating can feel overwhelming. With endless options through apps, social media, and online profiles, most people today struggle to understand relationships, expectations, and other people’s intentions. Everyone wants a healthy relationship built on mutual respect, good communication, and emotional safety — yet unrealistic expectations, red flags, and past experiences often interfere with finding true … Read more

Get Ready, Get Set, Change!

You know when to change the oil in your car, because the windshield sticker tells you after a few months of driving or a certain number of miles. You know when it’s time to change a baby’s diaper because—well—you just know! But how do you know when it’s time to make an important first step … Read more

Surviving and Thriving in the “Happy Holidays”

The greeting “Happy Holidays!” often suggests joy, celebration, and happy moments. Yet for most people, the reality of the holiday season can feel very different. Instead of joy, many experience holiday stress, rising stress levels, anxiety, depression, and pressure from family members, loved ones, and expectations that feel impossible to meet. The joyful experience this … Read more

Is It Thanksgiving or “Thanks-Giving”?

Every year, as the Thanksgiving holiday approaches, we have an opportunity to review our lives, our relationships, and the moments that bring us meaning. But Thanksgiving also marks the beginning of the party- and shopping-sprint that ends with Christmas, and it’s easy to rush past the deeper sense of gratitude to which Thanksgiving invites us. … Read more

Creating Community Through Therapy: Showing Up and Speaking Up in New York

Imagine walking out of your apartment in New York tomorrow morning and seeing your innermost thoughts written in bright lights above your head. Would you feel exposed? Embarrassed? Relieved that other community members could finally understand you? The truth is, many of our private fears and emotions are more alike than we realize. As the … Read more

Building a Solid, Stable Life: The Importance of Community for Mental Health and Well-Being

“Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore, we must be saved by love.”– Reinhold Niebuhr In October 2012, New York City endured the powerful force of Hurricane Sandy, which brought not only damage to physical infrastructure but also deep emotional strain. In the storm’s aftermath, entire neighborhoods had to rebuild—not just homes, … Read more

Addiction and Recovery: The Journey

Find Compassionate Therapy for Addiction and Co-Dependency in Queens, Long Island, and New York City Introduction: Is Addiction Affecting Your Life or the Life of Someone You Love? Addiction doesn’t always look like what we expect. For some, it’s a quiet, persistent dependence on substances, relationships, or behaviors. For others, it slowly becomes evident through … Read more

Good Grieving: A Journey Through Grief Therapy

What Is Grieving? Grieving is a master concept that helps explain many of the issues that clients bring into therapy. Learning the practice of “good grieving” helps bring healing within and between people. “Good grieving” is the process of responding and adjusting to change and loss while learning how to keep your heart open to … Read more